Decision fatigue
Do I move the laundry out of the dryer to the basket, where I know full well it will sit for a couple of days?...
Coming back to yourself
Trauma and grief can make you forget who you are. For 100 days, I woke up, I made coffee, I drove to the hospital an...
Playing a poor hand, well
“Life is not always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes, playing a poor hand well.” - Jack London I have thought long and...
Where the Magic Happens
In March, I went to Walt Disney World for the first time since Tim died. The first time since Heath died. I'd been to Disney...
Grief isn’t sadness, it’s exhaustion
Google has P A G E S of hits when you search for grief and exhaustion. I know this because every couple of months I...
What is today?
No, really. What day of the week is it? Because I've been convinced all day that it was Sunday. Even though I watched TV with...
More catching up
About exactly one year ago, minus about four hours as I'm writing this, I got that phone call. Everything I think I want to say...
What are you willing to tolerate?
Like a journal, these posts are a place for me to be more honest about what was happening than I was on Facebook, or Caring...
Why am I writing all this stuff about Tim, anyway?
If y'all haven't already been asking yourselves why it is exactly that I'm rehashing all of this, why I'm rewriting it, tomorrow's post will really...
Welcome back?
Nothing quite showed me that I missed my little blog here like almost losing my little blog. A year ago - wait, more than a...
Smart Goals
I told someone I was thinking of listing out the things I wanted to make sure I get done in 2020, and they were like,...
Begin as you mean to go on
I have a friend who says "begin as you mean to go on" at the beginning of the year; in other words, start January 1st...
When you’re ready we can share the wine (call me)
Recently I was talking to a friend about social media and how I present myself - a topic that I actually talk to a LOT...
That is quite a list! Have you tried finger cots to help keep your finger tip covered? Less bulky than…
From Aunt Gay: That's Aunt Gertie Spivey in the photo.
Merciful Mothers my sweet friend ! All i had to deal with was buying six pair of socks; now i…
March 16th will mark 4 years for me. I am feeling all kinds of feelings. I have lost my father,…
This all sounds so cozy, but still productive!
