1460 Days of Being a Widow
Time Keeps on Slipping, Slipping, Slipping into the Future Really? Again? Didn't I just write a post about being a three-year-old widow? Now it's already...
1460 Days of Being a Widow
Time Keeps on Slipping, Slipping, Slipping into the Future Really? Again? Didn't I just write a post about being a three-year-old widow? Now it's already...
Shuffling things around
Today, as I'm writing this (you'll be reading it on my tomorrow, your today, so this takes place in your yesterday) I am doing my...
So, yesterday
Yesterday started off great; watched an episode of DS9 with Sharon and Ginny (even though we all live in different states, we've been watching science...
Coming back to yourself
Trauma and grief can make you forget who you are. For 100 days, I woke up, I made coffee, I drove to the hospital an...
Recurring dreams of home. But not home. But, home.
I’ve been staring at the TV for about 15 minutes while one gunfire scene has been playing. How do they not run out of bullets?...
That little voice in your head
Maybe there's a dirty mug in the sink, with a spoon in it. Maybe you forgot to clean the crumbs off the cutting board from...
Dear Tim; we need to talk about our bathroom
By that I mean "my bathroom," but whatever. You're still here a lot, in my head. When we first came to look at this place,...
A gray immovable rock in glass-smooth water
Here's the thing about coming out of a narcissistic fog. You haven't just lost your time; you've lost your "spark." You’ve spent so long being...
More Than a Little Tired: The State of the Place
Here’s where I am right now. I wanted to take two weeks off at Christmas to have a little physical (and mental) down-time and be...
Hoover; not just a vacuum cleaner
Silence. The silence that feels less like a vacuum in space and more like a spa day. The kind of silence where you begin to...
Too angry to write
I'm trying to figure out how to write a blog post for work, that's somewhat political. The very idea is terrifying! I've always thought business...
Know when to walk away; know when to run
There's so much to do today. I thought I would be caught up after the holidays but I also thought I'd get some time OFF...
March 16th will mark 4 years for me. I am feeling all kinds of feelings. I have lost my father,…
This all sounds so cozy, but still productive!
Magnificent !
I hope you told the Angi survey that the referral could neither read nor write coherent English and you would…
You captured these feelings and experiences so beautifully. I see parts of my own grief over different losses in your…
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