People who have influenced me
Hey, remember Monday Musings....? It's baaaaaaaack, baby! At least this week. I won't call it TRULY back until I make time to do six in...
1095 Days of Being a Widow
Whelp. Today is the End of Year Three/Start of Year Four of being a widow. I say that not in a "oh, feel sorry for...
Revisiting LOST
Dear Timmy Sean; Remember that show we really loved (until we didn't, but then we hate-watched it until the end), LOST? On, I think it's...
I never write, I never call
Dear Tim; It's been a while since I wrote, I know, I know. But I had a weird dream about you the night before last....
I know dreams aren’t real, but still
Dear Timmy Sean; After not dreaming about you for months, I've had two in the last two weeks. One the night before last, one almost...
Dear Timmy Sean; yesterday was your birthday
Dear Tim; Yesterday was your birthday. I wanted to write something (I wanted to acknowledge your birthday and send a love letter to your family)...
Why do I write these? Who do I write them for?
Dear Tim; Why do I write these posts about grief and loss and death and healing? Why do I write, so openly, about what I...
Dear Tim; who were you, even?
CW: grief, confusion, anger, you know, all that stuff that comes with death of a spouse and being a widow. Dear Tim; Sometimes I wonder......
Hey, bud, it’s been a while since I’ve written
CW for anyone new, the posts in my "Letters to Tim" series touch on the death of a spouse, living with loss, the blend of...
Sometimes it’s still weird
Dear Timmy Sean; Sometimes it's still weird. Sometimes I still have moments when I forget that you've died - surely we just had a fight,...
That Christmas movie, with that guy who’s the vampire
Dear Tim; I was catching up on The Rookie while painting ceramics the other day, and guess who the guest star was? Molly Quinn! The...
That deck, tho
Dear Timmy Sean; We need to talk about your deck. [gallery type="slideshow" link="file" ids="12081,12080,12082,12083,12084,12085,12086,12087,12088,12089,12090,12091,12092,12093,12094"] I've been struggling with how to talk about your deck. You...
I put the irk in work
How is it, Timmy Sean, that in the last ten days I've gotten so much work done, and yet feel that I haven't gotten any...
RABBITHOLE! Lore; I went looking for 'A24 movie'. I cannot help but shakey me heady at the 'everbuddy nose' aspect…
December 18 is a weird anniversary for me. It is the day my parents got married in 1964, and the…
Lore; having lost both the Folks to the big C too damn near the holidays I understand. I can say…
Your writing is amazing. It's great therapy. Love the story. Grief is something familiar to me as well. It's like…
Well done. Thank you for sharing.
