If you’ve been reading the blog for the last week or so, you know that my mom’s birthday is one day after Uncle Joe’s birthday. We had a small party on Saturday to celebrate them both. I love seeing my mom hang out with Aunt Gay and Uncle Joe. Family! Awesome!
Tim did some totally kick-ass steaks on the grill, and also some unbelievably tasty corn-on-the-cob. Everyone brought other things, too, and there was more food and drink than you could shake a stick at. Puppies were entertaining. Beer was consumed. Laughing was done. GOOD TIMES, Y’ALL.
(PS. Linda, we’re sorry we forgot to call you! We mentioned it while Tim was eating, and as soon as he was done eating he was going to call, and then we all got distracted by something shiny – but you were mentioned, and there in spirit!)
Today is Tim’s mom’s birthday – yes, we really do have all these relatives with birthdays right in a row (and they’re all fabulous people, too – WHAT ARE THE CHANCES?!)
For the first half of yesterday, I thought it was Wednesday; then I thought it was Thursday. This morning I woke up thinking it was Friday… and I just realized it’s Saturday. SIGH.
We left Gainesville Saturday morning, and got to Cocoa just in time for lunch. Aunt Gay and Uncle Joe were still having lunch, so we hung out at the bar/seating area between the pool and the beach and Tim read while I knitted. I also started to walk, barefoot, down to the ocean but was turned back by the burning hot sands. Seriously, y’all. BURNING HOT. Remind me not to do that barefoot again. After we hooked up with Aunt Gay, we dropped our stuff off in the room, admired the view, and then walked around to get the lay of the hotel – we were staying in a resort right next to the con hotel, and it was a quick pretty walk around a pool and across a parking lot to get to the other hotel. After hanging for a while at the hospitality suite (which was very well-run, with lots of great food to offer – much of it home-made and healthy which is a lovely change) it was back to our rooms to get ready for the evening. As you can tell from my photos, I could barely stop staring at the ocean long enough to get dressed.
Then it was off to the reception for drinks and milling around. I saw many old friends and overall it felt like a family reunion. Inside, at dinner, the worst thing happened – fucking allergy attack. I had gone for the Ranch dressing on the salad (not recognizing the gravy-like dressing that was the other option) and although I do love Ranch it’s a crapshoot — some Ranch dressings contain eggs, and I was squarely hit by this one. I did NOT want to be that person who makes a scene at her uncle’s big night, but unfortunately even though I practically have stock in Benadryl, I happened to have THE ONE BAG with me that doesn’t have any. I have a bottle in just about every other bag I own. FAIL! Fortunately Aunt Gay discreetly asked around and procured some for me, and by about the end of dinner the swelling in my throat had gone down enough that I could finish eating. I stayed away from desert, a lime cheesecake. No more egg for me tonight, thanks.
The award ceremony seemed to start off slowly, but must have gone faster than I thought because before I knew it, Connie Willis was giving the funniest and loveliest introduction for Uncle Joe. She also included Aunt Gay in much of her speech, and it was sweet and touching and belly-laugh producing. Uncle Joe’s acceptance speech was also fantastic – funny and thoughtful – and can I just say that he looked alternately dapper and cute as a GD button?! After the ceremony (and I’m not trying to brush off the winners of awards; but mostly I was there for Uncle Joe, not knowing any of the nominees very well. I’ve put many of their books on my list, though) we went back up to the hospitality suite and showed off his award (and a painting that he was given, which I seem not to have gotten a photograph of). After it got more and more crowded and loud, we retired back to the hotel and sat up for a little while longer, before finally crashing.
Sunday morning we took our time getting moving (again, I could hardly tear my eyes away from the ocean), and left Cocoa around 11 in order to stop at my mom’s and have lunch with her and Dave. I know it will surprise no-one that we went to JB’s Fish Camp. Anyone? Anyone surprised? No? Didn’t think so. After lunch it was time to get back up to Gainesville.
And that was our weekend. Mom, it was great to see you and Dave; and Aunt Gay and Uncle Joe, congratulations and many thanks for the weekend! And thanks also to Sharon and Ginger for letting me out of the shop for the weekend – I’m grateful to have been able to go down for this!
Sunday we had a lovely trip down to Edgewater to visit my mom, whose sister and brother-in-law were in town. It was a lot of fun, hanging out with the family; I don’t know Aunt Mary and Uncle Charlie very well but can see that if I lived in Baltimore I would want to hang with them a lot. We hung out, went over a few of my grandmother’s things, went to JB’s (duh, of course), came back, and hung out some more. It was a most excellent way to spend a bonus day off!
Friday was our friend Jeff’s 42nd birthday (he is the answer! to life! the universe! and everything!) and last night we all got together to hang with him, cook for him, and generally show him a Good Time.
I can’t thank Chris and Sharon enough for New Year’s Day. Long time readers know that Uncle Joe usually makes breakfast for anyone who comes to the house on New Year’s Day– most years the food starts flowing at about 9 AM and goes until after lunch. After the bacon and eggs disappear, Aunt Gay starts bringing out leftovers from the night before; plates of vegetables, cookies, breads, dips… the food never ends.
But Uncle Joe was in the hospital this year, and that meant… meant what? No breakfast?
Up steps Chris, ready with egg casseroles and pounds of bacon. Ready to cook and step in for Uncle Joe. I have not the words; I can’t tell you how much that meant to me. My friends are wonderful.
Uncle Joe was still in the hospital, but this party has been going on since before I was born so we were pretty sure it would happen even if Aunt Gay locked the doors and turned off the lights. Instead, she let us step in and take care of things for her; Barbara, Chris, and Sharon were a huge help (as were the trio of trouble – Tim, Antony, and Jeff). A lot of my photos are blurry because for some reason I thought it’d be fine to not use a flash. Dur. (Also, that first photo of Chris is actually a video – check it out!)
